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Showing posts with label patience. Show all posts
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Saturday, February 2, 2013

A courageous life

Living a courageous life means
Whatever feeling or emotion comes up
Don't resist, panic or run away from it

Instead be still right in front of what is
Your eyes in its eyes patiently observing
Until finally it begins to fade away

You are the one who plays the game
Of making yourself afraid in every situation
And at the same time do whatever you can
To set yourself free from your own nightmares

Think about it and...
...Stay synchronized


 

Monday, December 17, 2012

The Kingdom of Heavens as a State of Consciousness

The Kingdom is merely a State of Mind and not some place, some where. It is a state of Unconditional Love, Infinite Peace, Joy and Total Satisfaction. So the Trip of life is no more no less than a Journey in your own Consciousness towards a Higher Consciousness called the Kingdom of Heavens. This is your Final destination, your True Home, where your Real Self, the Higher Self or the Superconscious dwells forever, hidden like the invisible part of the iceberg, from your conscious mind.

Thus, consciousness Journey is just an awakening process. That is,  you wake up from your deep Dream of Separation of your self with Your True Self which, however, is fully and eternally awake in God. It's as if a seed that  before was a tree, is growing to be transformed again into the same tree, which later will produce fruits which in their turn, to loop the loop, will later give birth to other seeds. And the process goes on over and over again. That's what the Consciousness Journey looks like.  

Now, when preparing yourself to Join the Kingdom and be Whole again, choose and take with you only what is Necessary, Permanent or Eternal like the Kingdom itself. For example, you can bring with you one Billion tones of Wisdom, one Billion tones of Love, one Billion tones of Peace, one Billion tones of Patience, one Billion tones of Joy, one Billion tones of Harmony, one Billion tones of Self gift, etc.

Doing so does not mean you will add anything to the Kingdom which is already sufficient in itself, but this demonstrates or proves your great Potential and enables you to be recognized and accepted by your Peers as a member of the Kingdom.

Don’t worry for a moment about Wealth or Abundance, they follow automatically in the Presence of the first and, particularly, the presence of Love, which knows only how to Give, and never how to take back. Look at the Sun, the Tree or Nature in general and be like them. Once again, never look for Wealth or Abundance in the first place, or they will be missed out and never will be found.

Remember King Salomon’s story in the Bible when asked by God to express his most important wish. Wisdom was Salomon’s number one and unique choice and God congratulated him about it. You know how the story went on next in terms of Abundance in King Salomon’s life. 

Also, don’t worry about weight. All these tones you take with you are kept in your Heart and, I can assure you, they are lighter there than a feather.

On your Path to the Kingdom, use the World all around you as the Barometer of your Evolution. For how you React to people, events and circumstances is an indicator of whether you Progress or not in the direction of your Home.

That is, until you no longer notice Sin, Culpability or Mistake in your Brother, until you no longer React negatively to what you think he has done wrong to you despite his Total Innocence as a Son of God, know that you are still far from the Kingdom.

Remember that there is no such thing as Out there and the world you perceive is merely a Reflection of your current State of Mind. Therefore, you know you are approaching your Final Destination when what you see in your Brother becomes only Light, or the Reflection of your own True Self.

So, every time you notice the Slightest Negativity in another person or in anything, know that it is Yours, but Projected outside in order to Blame someone else, who in fact does not exist. In this case, instead of Resistance, manifest your Gratitude to your Barometer. Because as a God given Tool,  this is a sign that it works perfectly well in a way that it makes you become Conscious of what is going on in you or that you are Off course, so that you may correct your trajectory accordingly.

By the way, did you know that when God looks at you, the only thing He Sees is His Own Image?

Think about it and...
Stay synchronized

Sunday, December 2, 2012

Patience is an attribut of eternity

If you recognize Eternity
As your inherent Nature
You would understand also
That Patience is its attribut
Without which this Nature
Remains Unknown to you

Think about it and...
...Stay synchronized

Saturday, November 3, 2012

Teachings from the universe

Every element of the Universe
Has specific lessons to teach you
Provided that you are Open-minded
And Ready Enough with the Willingness
To Look, Hear and Listen in order to be able
To Learn and Apply the Lessons given to you

Every single day

The Sun reminds you to live a Proactive life
By Giving out Unconditionally What You Are
To Everyone and Everywhere without Expectations
Knowing that what you are is Joy, Happiness, Patience
Forgiveness, Love, Smile, Kindness, Warm, etc.
And that it's Only by Giving out What You Are
Could you Experience it Yourself also

Every single day

The Seed reminds you that Patience is Everything
That Focus on your main Goals is all that matters
As well as Constant and Consistent Actions
In Alignment with your Objectives in life
If you are Willing to Surely and Safely
Reach your final Destination in God

Every single day

The Fruit Tree teaches you the Secrets of Generosity and Abundance
By Giving you Freely its nourishing Fruits which maintain you Healthy
Knowing that as you Give Generously so shall you Receive Abundantly also

Every single day

The River helps you to remember that it is like your Mind 
And as such should always be maintained Undisturbed and Clear
By Avoiding useless Disturbances caused by your erroneous Thinking

Every single day

The Ocean reminds you that you are of the same Structure
Its Surface being Identified with your Conscious mind
With all its Waves coming and going endlessly all day long
Just as Thoughts, Feelings and Emotions do the same through you
Knowing that in the Depths of Sea like the Depths of Consciousness
Is the Realm of Perfect Stillness and Peace Beyond Understanding

Every single day

The Caterpillar reminds you that you are both the same
And that just as it becomes later a Beautiful Butterfly
Through a Process of Natural Transformation
You also are going through the same Process
But Focus, Patience, Alignment and Faith are keys
Which enable you to Fly or be Whole again
After Waking up from your current Dream

Evey single day...

Think about it and...
...Stay synchronized

Thursday, March 29, 2012

There is a time for everything

There is a time for everything
And for each thing one time
Trouble comes from human being
Only when he starts resisting what is
By attempting to suppress its given time
To quickly get the change he seeks
With the hope to be happy
When he gets there

This however does not work
Happiness which is who you really are
Is the way and not the destination
And physical reality is in such a constant move
That whatever you get in this moment
Will soon or later pass
To leave you in the exact same position as before
That is wanting to change what is
And the strong desire for something else
Supposed to be better than what is
Over and over again

But so limited as your physical senses are
How would you know whether the change you seek
Will bring joy or take you into a nightmare?
If it is true that for each thing there is one specific time
Why would you attempt to suppress it in certain situations?
Isn't it that you judge them as bad and not lovable?
Wouldn't it be that what is in this moment
Is exactly what is suitable to you here and now
Just because you live in a friendly Universe that loves you
And whose sole purpose is to make you grow?

Is there a way out to this endless resistance
And persistent attempt to escape the present moment?
Yes there is One!

It is a full acceptance of what is
Based on knowledge of Truth not on resignation
No matter how frustrating what is is
It is a complete stillness in front of what is
Without the slightest negative judgment 
No matter how disgusting it appears to you
It is an infinite patience for what is
Knowing it is always temporal and ephemaral
No matter how real it seems to be
It is forgiveness and unconditional love for what is
Including people, events, circumstances and places
No matter how threatening they may be

Also remember 
That you will never get it done
And if this is true as it really is
Why then wasting time and energy
Trying mentally to rush into the unknown
Instead of letting time play its own game through you
Like the flow of waters through the pipe
Taking all kind of forms one after another
When and as it wishes

Those are some effective tools
Those are some useful steps
Towards more relief and freedom
As well as the main keys
That open the door of your natural sate
For more joy and happiness
That by the way is who you really are
Reason why you would never be able to find it
Nowhere outside of yourself
But only inside of you
By experiencing it yourself
Once you start giving it out
All over the places

Think about it and...
...Stay synchronized

Wednesday, November 30, 2011

You have specific lessons to learn in this lifetime

Human beings are not the same, and will never be. But, there is something in common about all of us. It is that we are here to grow, evolve and expand; and no one can escape from this objective. When I talk about expension, I do not mean  accumulation of stuff, or money. It's about expension of our consciousness, and awakening to our true being.

If you look closely at yourself, you will understand what I am talking about. You will come to notice aspects of yourself that need to be improved, which you know more than anyone else. If you pay attention to other people also, chances are that you would be able to perceive the the gap in them, related to the qualities they have to cultivate and improve in their life.

Among the qualities imaginable in our true nature, let's list just a few: eternity, patience, stillness, beauty, love, unlimitedness, infinity, perfection, joy, faith, certainty, clarity,  etc. Now, what do you think may be your point of improvement in this lifetime?

For many people, some of the lessons they have to learn may be patience or faith. And, in this regard,  two of the best teachers available to us are the seed and the tree. Go and study them, speak to them, and they will reveal their secrets to you.

All around you, teachers for other aspects of your life are waiting for you to be ready, in order to teach you what it is for you to learn.

Think about it and...
...Stay synchronized.

Thursday, January 6, 2011

Who said it is easy?

Often, many self help gurus or spiritual teachers make you believe, through their success stories, that change is easy and that you just have to learn and apply what they teach in order to achieve the same results.

This is simply not the truth. Things have become relatively easy for certain people because they have attained a certain level of consciousness and understanding of the truth after dedicating years and years of practice, or even lives. Results, then, seemed to come almost effortlessly.

But this is not the case for everyone. Or, men wouldn't remain at this point two thousands years after Christ teachings. The truth is, although we are the same in our divine essence, we are however very different at the level of our conscious state.

What most self help gurus are teaching people is that success, wealth, health, peace of mind or whatever are easy because they have succeeded in one area or another of their life, without an idea of what the conscious level of their students is. They just say "I have succeeded, so can you. Use my materials and do the same".

Personally, I think it would be honest on their part to let people know that results do not come overnight, just after reading a particular book or attending a particular seminar. Unfortunately, it is what most self help gurus promise, and average people run to buy these products without any guarantee of success.

So, understand one thing. You will never be like anyone else, despite all your efforts to do so. Use the knowledge that comes your way with the only purpose to make progress, and not to get results now, or you will be disappointed.

Know one thing, results do not depend on you, but personal efforts do. In other words, you are not accountable for results, but only for your efforts to make progress and evolve to higher levels of consciousness which, when attained will produce correspondent outcomes. But, never will you be able to produce outcomes that are not in harmony with who you are now. Always remember that!

And, don't worry about not being perfect here on this plane, about not mastering yourself, or not achieving your goals. What really matters is your will to make progress. Then, let results take care of themselves when time comes, in this lifetime or another. They know how to manage doing that.

Also, never forget that you are an eternal being, and that your life does not stop with what you call death. The truth is that you live forever and, what is not achieved now, will be reached in one life or another. Be patient therefore, and still. Those are your attributes in eternity. Patience with yourself , patience with others and patience with events and circumstances.

Two thousands years ago, the Great master Jesus said that the things He was doing, we will be doing the same, or even greater ones. He didn't affirm that we would do them overnight. He knew that it takes time to change and awaken from our current state of consciousness to high level ones.

So, it is not easy. And, affirming the contrary would be a lie. Again, be contented to make efforts towards progress. That's your part. And let results to take care of themselves in God's hands.

Think about it and...
...Stay synchronized.

Monday, September 20, 2010

How long would you wait for your good?

Abraham and Sarah waited 100 years to become parents by giving birth to their son Isaac. Jacob waited for 14 years to marry Rachel, his loved one. Nelson Mandela waited for 27 years to realize his dream (the apartheid abolition) and to become something he didn't intend:



President of south Africa !


What do these figures have in common?


- High ideal for others, not yourself; Something you are ready to die for.

- Unshakable faith in God;

- Lot of patience.
Thin about it and...
...Synchronized...





Monday, August 2, 2010

Success stories

The organization has no funds to recruit a new staff member, she said. So, don't expect to get a job here. It's just a one month work. These words had been said in 1988, and I have been working for the Organization for 22 years now.

Living in a single all in one room. No bath room and no toilets. Today, it's a home worth millions of XAF with all the facilities needed.

From a just an office clerk earning 35000 XAF to a Program Officer of more than a million XAF par month.

The main lessons learned is:

Patience gives you everything you want. So, let time do its own job; it's a living thing which knows what to do, where and when. Gratitude for your current blessings keeps you away from frustration. Nothing is impossible to God. So, never pay attention to what people may say in order to discourage you.

Think about it and...
Stay synchronized...

Friday, July 24, 2009

Constant and consistent attention creates your experiences

Many of us have already heard about the power of attention in the creative process. It is said that our attention is what creates and maintains everything in existence, to such an extent that when this attention is withdrawn, the thing focused on litterally disappears.

Have you already tried it? If not, it's time to start. To do it, the first thing is to choose the thing you want to experience in your life. What is it? What is it that you want to see manifested in your life now, in order to be convinced of this truth?

The few things you need are your imagination and your will to maintain your focus or your attention on the image representing what you have choosen to experience. Once this image has been choosen, just focus your attention on it, constantly and consistanly, night and day.

Don't force to make anything happen. Proceed naturally and, if your focus is withdrawn for a moment, gently just get it back to your mental image. Have in mind that it is impossible to maintain your focus on something 24 hours a day. Always, it will be distracted by something else all day long.

However, never mind, these interruptions are part of the normal functioning of the mind. Whenever this happen, just get your attention back kindly to your point of focus, over and over, until a continuous focus is established; which later will be followed by the manifestation of your experience.

There is a common belief people have. It is that the experience of something will make you happy. Nevertheless, your happiness doesn't depend on something external. Your are happiness. It's your essence and your natural state.

Do not expect to be happy from your experience, or you will be disillusioned. Be happy in the first place, and experience whatever you wish, just for the fun of it and not with the objective to be happy.

Now, what kind of image can you hold in your imagination in order to maintain your attention on the the object you want to manifest?

First of all, this image should be clear, vivid, pleasant and, above all, joyful. In short, it is one which, when thinking about it or focusing on it, makes you feel good. When you have fun focus on it, you will like coming back to it again and again, until full connection is established.

In addition, be patient. Remember that you are not trying to get something behind your experience. You are playing and enjoying the process. It's for the fun of it, not for winning anything. Playing the game is in fact what you want; nothing else.

Everything in life grows, constantly and consistently. Think of a tree, a plant, a body, hair, etc. Physical growth stops only with death. Therefore, don't attempt to jump straight to the experience where there is no fun!

Manifestation is death, calling for a new beginning!

Think about it and...

Stay synchronized!

Wednesday, July 8, 2009

For a certain level of consciousness, certain experiences

Every living creature in this universe is intended to grow and evolve. Creatures of vegetable and animal kingdoms do it well, naturally and easily. Think of a tree, for example. Starting from a small seed , growing consistently moment to moment is its main task, until it becomes mature and produce fruits which later, will nourish other creatures.

Another good example is the butterfly. Its small egg develops to give birth to a caterpillar which, later also, will be transformed into a beautiful and colored butterfly. In these two examples, the process is operated with the great wisdom of the Infinite Intelligence that created worlds, without any slightest resistance.

The seed, in essence, "knows"what its final goal is: to be mature and produce fruits. Same thing for the egg, whose final goal is to achieve its full potential in the form of a butterfly, and become free, before spending time all day long, flying leisurely and joyously from one plant to another.

In their process of evolution, these two creatures do not worry, even for a moment, about how and when they will attain their mature state or respective goals. Never. They just keep growing and evolving in total abandonment to the infinite wisdom of the universe. They do not either get anxious or feared about the future, but instead, trust unconditionally the universe and its laws for everything.

That is the big difference between human beings and other creatures. Human beings live in doubts, worries, anxieties, frustrations and fears, while other creatures evolve in total confidence and unquestionned faith in the Infinite Intelligence that created them.

This attitude from human beings is pure nonsense. How hell can simple creatures like them have doubts about their creator? How could this be? Maybe human beings don't recognize God as their creator, and assume they created themselves as they are. Or, because they cannot perceive God directly, ideas about His infinite wisdom and powers seem too imaginary and, therefore, not credible.

This attitude is nothing else than a denial of God, their own source. They seem to have no other choice, but only count on their own forces. However, in times of difficulty, they get lost and feel desperate.

Why that? Why separate ourselves from our source by denying it, to be exposed to unnecessary sufferings in our life ?

The truth is, very often this attitude is not intentional. Something, call it ego or whatever name you give it, is standing between us and our creator. This thing prevents us from living in complete trust and confidence with our divine nature. It's the source of all our troubles and sufferings, and we can be free only by removing this impostor once and for all from our life.

Now, learning from example being one of the best known methods for acquiring knowledge, what lessons do we get from the seed and the egg?

Lesson1: As already discussed, the first lesson to learn is total, unconditional trust and faith in God, the Infinite Intelligence that knows and can everything. Because perceiving the all picture about your life, He knows exactly what is good for you or not, despite all appearances.

Your frustration and resentment for not getting something else, added to your strong will and persistance to obtain it, are only reactions from your limited ego. You cannot pretend, with such attitude, to trust God. On the contrary, it is a sign of pride on your part, meaning you know better than God about what is good for you.

Lesson2: It is patience and endurance ! My friend, do you know how to have everything you want? Do you know the secret for having all that you heart is longing for? Be patient. That's the secret.

If you look at your life now, you'll notice that many of the things you had desired in the past are already present in your life. Sometimes for years. You don't even remember having badly been craving for them. Today, they seem to have less importance. Because now, you are wanting something else that, one day, will also be yours, until it loses its value.

In life, many "obstacles" or "tests" may come your way, do not resist them. They are of great service to you, even when this seems difficult to accept at first. Don't complain and try to escape or run away from them.

Sometimes, problems persist because in your mind, you are not clear. It is as if your mind was troubled like troubled water. In this case, instead of resisting, just be still and wait. You will get clear, and in this clarity lies the truth.

The main intention of seemingly problems is to make you stronger than you now are. Therefore, be still and face them courageously. Let go of your ego completely and surrender to the Infininite Intelligence of All That Is to handle the situation, whatever it is. God's power wants to be expressed through you. Be open and release it.

Be no One ! The seed, for example, "knows" how to do it. When there is lack of water during the dry season, and not even a single drop of water can be found, can you imagine the seed complaining and crying all day long in front of its adversity? Never. The seed remains still and confident. It experiences calmly the permanent alternation of life's phenomenons, the "yin" and the "yang".

Lesson3: It is total abandonment to the infinite wisdom of the Infinite Intelligence. While faith and trust imply total confidence in God in achieving our goals, abandonment enables to completely let go and let God. In this state, you are carefree about details and outcomes. You know what you want, but don't care about whether or not you will get it. The result for you is the same. Because God's choice is already yours, and you accept it thanfully and joyfully.

Human beings are too attached to outcomes. Always wanting to achieve final results almost overnight, by transcending the natural laws of growhth and evolution. And when some delays are experienced in manifesting their desires, they get frustrated and mad.

Again, can you imagine the seed behaving this way for not producing fruits instantaneously? Or the egg, for not flying overnight? Only human beings do that! They cannot understand and accept that until they grow and evolve up to a certain level of consciousness, they are not yet ready for certain experiences. This would defy the natural laws of the universe.

Lesson4: It is about consciously living and accepting fully the present moment, without expectations. The seed or the egg do not care about whether they will achieve their respective goal or not.

Will the egg grow and be tranformed into a caterpillar that will one day become a beautiful butterfly? Noboby know. Maybe it will be eaten by another insect or animal. Will the seed grow and evolve to a big tree providing fruits to people and animals? Nobody knows. But the seed doesn't care about what will happen to its life the next moment.

The only thing that matters for both the egg and the seed is where their focus is NOW, and, moment to moment, evolve towards their goal. The question you, as human being, must ask yourself over and over and moment to moment, is this :

"Is what I am thinking, feeling and doing in this moment in harmony with my main goal in life, which is to grow and evolve to high levels of consciousness"? If the answer is no, correct the the course of your thoughts, feelings and actions immediatly, and align them with your life purpose. To be successful, do this inquiry many times a day.

Lesson5: It relates to the consciousness of perfection behind every step of our process of evolution. When growing or evolving to higher levels of consciousness, no step in the journey is more important than another. All are interdependent and perfect in their stage and at their time. Without the egg, no caterpillar; and no caterpillar, no butterfly. The same truth applies to the seed and the tree.

That means, every step in life is whole in its nature and perfect as it is. Applying to human beings, this truth can bring great relief to the resistance they have in their day-to-day life. In fact, they rarely accept fully their current point in life. Always, wanting to be somewhere "else" or have something "better". They never agree with their now, specially when some of its aspects are not as they would prefer.

For example, if they want a better car, a better home or a better job, they see the one they have as imperfect. If they are on the dole or single, they see their condition as imperfect. They judge it negatively. But you know what? This attitude is what maintains things as such, without any improvement.

Human beings have decided in advance that what they desire is "better" than what they have now. Therefore, they live with too much expectations for future changes in their life. Forgetting that where they are now is a necessary step to get where they want to be, and even when they get there, they will still be moving forwards, but always in their wholeness.

Have in mind that only perfection is, has always been and will ever be, despite all appearances. Our true nature, and the nature of everything, is perfect. For this reason, when God looks at you, the only thing He sees like in a mirror, is: perfection. That's all. If the reflected image was different, God would not be perfect. Because what we perceive is only the reflection of what we are. As God is perfect, He can only see perfection.

Refuse to be attached to outcomes or live with expectations for the future. That will release you from useless resistance and sufferings. Know that your life is already perfect the way it is, now. Nothing is missing to you in this very moment. Nothing is missing to an egg, nor to a caterpillar. Even the butterfly is still evolving by giving birth to new eggs.

Only your ego always tries to convince you of the contrary. Unfortunately, you let it win most of the time. But, if you had already a certain level of consciousness, this truth would be more clear to you. You are already perfect exactly where you are.

Another truth to remember is that this process has no end. As someone said: "you will never get it done". You will never reach a point where you will be said: "stop". Your life is an infinite journey in which every single step is whole and complete in itself.

Lesson6: It is about your ultimate goal in life, and also the ultimate goal of every creature and everything in existence : unconditional service. Whatever the conscious level you may achieve, it is intended to help and serve others.

But, the main point here is that, this service must be unconditional. Look at the nature, and you will agree that everything serves unconditionally. The fruit tree, the sun, the rain, etc. All of them serve the universe without reserve or condition.

Some people, even at an advanced stage of their life, always consider themselves as small seed. They always want to be served by others and keep willing to take, over and over, not realizing that time has already come for them to give in return.

They even don't wonder why, despite all their attempts to get more, they can no longer receive as they wish. The thing is, when a container is already full of water, it cannot take more of it. Make rooms in yourself by giving out something good to others, whatever it is. Then, they will be filled by good things also.

Stop for a moment and analyse yourself. Do you think you are already mature? If your answer is yes, then start giving more, instead of asking. There are so many things you can give, I assure you. Money and stuff aren't the only things to give.

What about your good will, your love, your kindness, your work, your smile, your help or support, your encouragement, your compliment, your time, your devotion, your advice, etc. Anybody can give something, no matter what.

To go even farther, know that the only thing we do in life in: giving!

Yes. It's the only thing we do, moment to moment all day long. But, we do it unconsciously. Our thoughts, feelings, emotions and deeds are sent out constanly in the form of energy and vibrations, which bring back to us corresponding experiences. Therefore, why not chosing by ourselves what we decide to send out?

Unconditional living is one of the keys to happiness. This way, you live without expectations from anybody or anything. You become totally whole in yourself and totally free. Your life does no longer depend on external events and circumatances.

With an unconditional life, you decide to live the way you wish. That is, you are happy for nothing, you are abundant for nothing, you give for nothing, you are kind for nothing, you love for nothing, etc. In a word, you live for nothing. No expections in return!

All these lessons, in fact, apply to every creature, and only human beings are not able to live in total obedience to their creator, due to the interferences of their egos. These interferences are what jams and retards the normal process of their evolution.

Ego creates doubts, worries, anxieties, frustrations and fears in human beings. For this reason, they must always pay attention to what is happening in their mind, moment to moment, so that when noticed, these negativities are automatically rejected and thrown away.

Think about it and...

Stay synchronized...