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Showing posts with label expectations. Show all posts
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Monday, September 13, 2010

God loves you !

That's the greatest and ultimate postulate ever stated. Starting from there, knowing that you are blessed, loved, safe, abundant, protected and whatever you may think about, it becomes evident that everything that seems to happen to you can be but only for your highest good.

The fact is, you must go with the flow of life, in order to be happy. To go with the flow is to live fully the present moment, without expectation for the future or judgment for whatever seems to happen to you now. In fact, nothing is happening to you, because it is not really you, being here. You merely seem to be there, but you are not.

So, with this confusion in your mind about your true identity, you feel like a victim of life, feeled with feelings of insecurity, fear, lack of power, frustration, anxiety, worry, and so on. You must always bear in mind two very important things:

First, God loves you unconditionally, and eternally. Second, you are not who you think to be. It is not really you living here and facing all the troubles, challenges and problems that seem to threaten you.

Who you really are and which is the real Son of God is eternally in peace, happy, joyful, abundant, safe and blessed. That is the real you, not the one you imagine to be or which you are dreaming of.

Recognize this truth, accept it, and your life will change.

Don't have expectations in this world which, by the way, does not exist; or start judging whatever seems to happen to you or to others around "you" as "good" or "bad". Because when you do, you make it real, as well as everything it contains, including "you". Live without resistance for whatever occurs in order to go with the flow.


Think about it and...
...Stay synchronized

Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Be like de sun if you want to be happy

Most people believe that happiness is something to get outside of themselves. Something gained from or achieving a specific goal valuable to them. Such as getting a good job or a promotion, living romantic relationship, receiving lot of money, buying a new car or a big home, passing an important exam or receiving a degree, etc.

But, the truth is that happiness is not something you get from doing or achieving anything. Happiness is inherent to you, it's your nature, It's what you really are. The good feeling that emerges from you due to a particular event was already there in you, but not activated. It's only when a specific event is pleasant to you that this feeling is activated, which does not mean it comes from outside. Some time later, it is disactivated again.

The question is, if happiness is your natural state, why aren't you permanently happy?

Here are a few answers. First, you are unhappy because you do not focus enough on things that please you. People usually spend most of their time on things that generate in them feelings of worry, fear, anxiety, dispear and so on, instead of on those that make them feel good or make them happy.

They don't know how to use their existing environment as a pretext to activate the feeling of happiness in them, even for a moment. Instead, they let their attention wander everywhere and be focused on things they don't like, which generate only negative emotions and finaly make them feel bad. Thus, by not having the capacity to choose and focus only on what please them, they behave like victims of circumstances, instead of the conscious creators of their own life.

Second, you are unhappy because you are looking for happiness where it is not and can not be found. As stated earlier, happiness is not obtained in exchange of acquisitions, or achieved as a result of living specific circumstances or events. Happiness Is, already, in you, however dormant. What is required is merely your awareness of it, so that in time, little by little, it manifests in your life.

But, in order to be truly happy once you become aware of it as inherent to you, give happiness all over the places. Give it to every person you meet and love them all. Most of the time, people wait for something to happen in order to be happy. But, this is a big mistake. Happiness is not a reward. Don't wait for the change you desire in your environment to occur, so that you may be happy.

Doing so means that your happiness is external to you; which is not the case. Happiness implies proactivity. That means, being conscious of your natural happiness, you take it first with you wherever you go, and give it freely to the world, without expectations. Because as you give, so shall you receive. It is law. Expectations are one of our main obstacles to happiness, as they block the flow of positive energy flowing through us.

Look at the sun. Do you think that all over the world you see, there is something more happier than the sun? Day by day, it sends consistently its big smile and its light to all of us, unconditionally and without discrimination. That is true love.

Be like the sun, if you want to be happy. Become an unconditional giver, not a frenetic receiver. Give only the best that is in you, always, and you'll experience it in return in your life. There is no other way to happiness.

Think about it and...
Stay synchronized...