Happiness is a decision and not a reward

On this earth you live
There is nothing whatsoever
That you would be or do externally
Which would make you Happy

All your desires to Be or Have
You believe will bring you Joy
Always lead without exception
To the same state of Emptiness
Nothing outside will ever fulfill

That is so because Happiness
Is neither the end Result of any endeavour
Nor some Reward gained after an achievement
But the very Essence of Who You Really Are
As Spiritual being and Beloved Son of God
Totally Complete and fully Satisfied in Him

As such Happines cannot be
Something you pursue, chase or run after
It is what you already Are at the core of your Being
And the only thing that is required from you
Is the Decision to Fully Recognize and Accept it
Without Reserve and Unconditional
Until little by little you Experience it
And Express it in your daily life

Waiting for external conditions to change
In order to experience Happiness or peace
Is not only Ignorance of your true nature
Coupled with a waste of time and energy
But also a great mistake that leads you straight
To a position of Victim in your Own life

Refuse to Sell yourself Short
By relying on changes on the outside
And Decide to Be 100% Responsible
Of your inner Peace, Joy and Happiness
Through Full and Uncontional Self Acceptance

Because as it has always been stated
There is no Way to Happiness
Instead Happiness is the Way
Meaning a delibarate Decison
You and you alone Must take

Do that and see what happens...

Think about it and...
...Stay synchronized

Your essential nature

"No sacrifice, no service, no service, no satisfaction, no satisfaction, no happiness" (Guy Finley)

The essence of a flower is its perfume or fragrance, which differs from one flower to another. And, like a flower, human being also has an essence or essential nature,  inherent to who he is, at the core of his being. This essence is the Spirit of God in him.

But, contrary to human being, the flower does not have an ego and, for this reason, does not produce perfume for itself. Instead, all it does, is delivering unconditionally its fragrance for the appreciation of other creatures, including human beings.

That is, the flower is not so selfish to keep its fragrance just for its own use. Its joy lies in giving it away, all day long, to whomever is willing to appreciate its beautiful perfume. That is its job, and the reason for which it has been created.

Human beings had also been created for the same reason, which is to share unconditionally their essential nature, for the benefit of others. This essential nature is made up of qualities such as kindness, love, understanding, patience, peace, help, support, happiness, of his soul, joy, time, appreciation, gratitude, forgiveness.

But unfortunately, many people have been deviated from this destiny by their ego and put themselves and their interests at the center of their life; anybody else being considered as secondary. As a result, unhappiness has become their daily companion.

You have been created to serve and give unconditionally what you truly are to others. It is in this condition alone that you can experience it yourself, not another way around. The flower, however does not have such an opportunity; all it does if giving freely.

Think about it and...
...Stay synchronized...

Give what you are to experience it

There are things, many things, that you've been craving for in your life that, finally, you've got soon or later. After having got these things, my questions about it are as follows:

• Did you really take the time to enjoy, appreciate, or celebrate these acquisitions with all your heart once you got them?
• Are they still important to you now?
• Do you still enjoy, appreciate, celebrate or love them?

When I observe you, wherever you are right now, I can imagine exactly what your current thoughts and feelings could be. Like months or years before, they are mainly focused on getting new things, objects, situations or relationships that you think would bring improvement and joy in your life.

I imagine you standing at the same "not enough" or "empy" position as years before, in which you have no satisfaction for anything whatsoever. Over the years, you've been doing the same business; the business to ask and wait for something new or better to happen.

I can see you where you are, with your eyes looking up to the sky and waiting for your wishes or desires to manifest, just like you'd do under a fruit tree, waiting for good fruits to fall down and eat them.

The fact is, your desires manifest indeed and good fruits really fall down all the time under your feet. But, once they have fallen, you ignore them and keep waiting for fruits that are still on the branches. Or, as soon as oranges have fallen, you leave them and quickly, move to the apple tree to wait for apples, and so on.

Be true to yourself and dare to tell me the contrary. Truly, how long have you been enjoying the goals you've achieved in your life let's say a degree, a new job, a promotion, a new car, a nice relationship, a new home, an award or a new baby in your life?

When you think about it frankly, you realize that your happiness had never last for a long time. Because as soon as you got what you wanted, something different took place automatically in your mind and you moved for it. That is the scenario you go through over and over again. Is this the life you really want? I don't think so.

In my opinion, you want a different kind of life. You want a life made of peace, joy, appreciation, happiness, satisfaction and love. I am pretty sure you'll agree with that. However, peace and happiness cannot be found just from getting things outside.

Peace and happiness have nothing to do with external possessions which are diametrically opposed to them for the following reasons:

1. Who you really are is spirit. And peace, happiness, beauty or whatever are inherent to spirit;
2. You are eternal, and happiness or peace which are inherent to you are eternal also;
3. Acquisitions are physical and perishable stuff. As such, they are ephemeral and never last;
4. Acquisitions are neutral. That is, beauty or happiness are not inherent to them. The only meaning they have is the one you give them. So, nothing you see is beautiful in itself because the beauty you perceive is projected from you to the object you admire;
5. Thus, only what is eternal can procure everlasting happiness, peace or joy.
   Because they are inherent to you. They are at the core of your being, where they have always been, are right now and will be forever. They are who you are.

But, here is the great point, you cannot and will never experience true peace, joy, happiness, love or whatever if you don't recognize them first in you and then, give them out. What do I mean by that? Let me explain. Happiness, peace or whatever are like muscles. Without exercise, they remain latent in the body.

But as you begin to use them frequently, you recognize their presence in you. Then, little by little, they become strong and visible outside. And, the more you use them, the more strength they get and the more visible they become.

You'd ask, how do I use peace, joy, happiness and whatever to develop them? The answer is easy. Just as you use the muscles of your body, use, exercise and train the muscles of your happiness, joy, peace, etc.

That is:

• Train yourself to be totally satisfied with what you are and have in this moment and your satisfation will get strength;
• Train, use your love, appreciation, and happiness muscles by loving everybody and everything, appreciating and blessing everything, an being happy all the time;
• Exercise your peace muscles by being in peace with everybody, every event and every circumstance;
• Above all, know that Christ, or Superconsciousness, is the essence and the symbol of everything good (joy, happiness, peace, abundance, etc.) Therefore, never love the effects you perceive outside. Instead, love the essence, whose symbol is Christ within.

You'are doing it wrong when you crave for physical manifestations which are merely effects and not the cause. Find and become the cause (Christ) by being happy, joyful, abundant, satisfied, etc. Again, be and experience the cause by using it and giving it out aboundantly, and this aboundance will be manifested outside according to its nature.

In short, whatever you want in your life, remember that it exists already inside of you in a latent state. Just take it from there and give it out, by using and develop it. Then, you'll be able to see it reflected outside and experience it.

Think about and...
Stay synchronized...

Relationships with pure love

All the Process of life
Is essentially based
Upon Relationships
Only with your Self

The world Outside
In the form of People
Events or Circumtances
Being merely the Mirror
On which your Inner life
Of Thoughts and Feelings
Is perfectly Reflected

In These Relationships
Above all go far beyond Egos
Appearences and Forms
Focus only on the Spirit Behind

Deal only with the Essence of pure Love
Which is in You, in Others and Everything
Then Align your Thoughts and Feelings
 As well as Words and Actions with It

Doing so always Remember
That Only Perfection Is
Has Always Been
And will Ever Be

Despite the Appearent Turmoil
Observed in our daily life
But Does not Exist in Reality

Think about it and...
...Stay synchronized.